Living in a beach vacation destination has its moments. Most days we’re so grateful that we live here. Even in the heat of the summer, at the peak of tourists, we love it. But we’re also learning from it and from each other. Here are our rules to live by when you’re on a family beach vacation.
Rule #1 - Remember you’re at the beach!
You may think it would go without saying, but it’s surprising how many people actually forget to enjoy themselves on a beach trip. I know. It’s hot. You have to load down like pack mule and haul a bunch of gear down the sand. You find a spot to squeeze in between a bunch of strangers and hope they have a similar beach style to yours. Kids start fighting and everyone is hungry. It’s easy to get distracted in all the negative.
Rule #2 - Try to have no-tech tables
We actually do this at our house for dinner. It doesn't always happen, but when it does we are all glad that it did. All devices have to be put away when we sit down to eat—even for the adults. Then, wait for it, we have to actually talk to each other! It’s one of the best parts of my day. We talk about all that we saw or did that day, our favorite/funniest moment and what we’re planning for the next day. Not only do you get great family time, it also really helps your memory so the best of your vacation can stay with you for years to come.
Rule #3 - Just wear the sunscreen
Literally and figuratively, wear the sunscreen. Don't let your pride ruin your trip. When people visit the beach, they often feel untouchable. Or, they have so much fun they forget to put on sunblock. But then they end up miserable and burnt in the middle of the night. In the same way, many vacationers don't take precautions, like watching what they eat and drink or checking the weather. Boundaries you would normally set but don't because travel can make you feel invincible. Put your pride away for a moment and just wear the sunscreen!
Rule #4 - Eat dessert FIRST!
If you're planning a family beach vacation, make sure you don't follow all the rules! If you go on a trip and eat what you normally eat, do what you usually do and only talk to people you always talk to, you're missing the point. Have a little fun and do something out of the ordinary. It just may be the most memorable moment for you and your little ones!